polite, mannered, gentlemanly, genteel, courteous, decorous, genial, uncouth, snobbish, gregarious, businesslike, clubbable, charming, respectful, condescending, thoughtful, erudite, easygoing, courtly, personable, gracious, teacherly, unpretentious, rude, congenial, unmannerly, chatty, prissy, fastidious, amiable, tactful, dignified, prim, snobby, unflashy, ungentlemanly, standoffish, hireable, boorish, studious, undemonstrative, affable, considerate, jovial, rambunctious, unacademic, obstreperous, chivalrous, cheerful, impertinent, unassertive, talkative, urbane, garrulous, playful, haughty, loutish, affectionate, ladylike, snooty, civilized, unostentatious, obsequious, supercilious, patrician, tasteful, brusk, brusque, companionable, convivial, loquacious, witty, unshowy, deferential, unquotable, softhearted, observant, unassuming, likable, impolite, lawyerly, slovenly, waspish, dutiful, bumptious, snippy, cultured, truculent, dapper, conscientious, sociable, unexcitable, jocular, opinionated, womanish, gruff, ingratiating, approachable, solicitous, unchivalrous, tenderhearted, argumentative, disrespectful, ungracious, inoffensive, sedate, carefree, discreet, effacing, natured, reticent, thoughtless

polite, well-mannered